Sounds Like She Was Very Wise
There’s no telling what went through this woman’s grandmother’s mind, but she appears to have been quite wise. We haven’t confirmed all of her pieces of advice, but they’re definitely worth checking out.
It may appear odd not to have a joint account as a couple, but she might have a point. The “never date a musician” remark just makes us wonder what sort of men she used to associate with, and the last one sounds like it’s personal vengeance.