You are so strong
Wait, what exactly is going on here? Aren’t the eldest daughters the strength of each family, young females with the brain power to tackle any problem that arises? Well, it would appear that maybe we got it all wrong, perhaps nobody understands the personal struggle these siblings go through on a daily basis.
If you are reading this and have an older sister or daughter, find them right now and give them a hug, they earned it. Let them know that you are sorry for treating them differently than the rest of the family and things will change. Everyone needs to feel some love and understanding after all.