It’s Complicated
If you a hundred people why they’re single, they might give you multiple different answers. For instance, some people are single because they’re focusing on their careers (yeah, right). Others aren’t in a relationship because they haven’t found the right person yet (excuses). Then there’s this person who is brutally honest with themselves.
They’re not in a relationship because despite wanting to have a boyfriend or girlfriend, they also want to be as single as they can before their heart ultimately explodes from loneliness. So, maybe you should work on your problems in therapy, my guy.