#5: All or Nothing
These days more than ever it feels like we live in a society where people like to label everything. And as great as labeling things can be, putting labels on everything all the time means that people don’t necessarily have the space to explore their options without being judged.
But when you give yourself a pretty strong label, but then don’t adhere to any of the things that are related to that label, well then, you aren’t really anything. If we had overheard this conversation in Walmart we would have told her to tell her friend that she needs to have a serious talk with him.