Don’t waste your time
We feel like a lot of people really need to read this one and consider it in their own lives. If you are the person who is always contacting someone first and they never do it to you, there is something wrong. They don’t value your time and attention as much as you do.
You need to remember that you are valuable and your attention and time are as well. So think about it like that and do not just go around and give it out for free, you’re better than that. See how long it takes for these people to contact you back after ignoring them.