Can’t relate
We don’t know if this is a selfish move from this woman, but at the same time, we get it. If you can not relate to friends that you used to have, then what is the point of forcing a friendship that just isn’t working anymore? Maybe taking some time apart is the best thing to do.
Besides, not being able to relate to a person whom you once were able to be a sign that you are just growing in different directions. No problems with that, it’s just a fact of life and we all need to understand it. Maybe letting go isn’t such a bad thing after all.